Compiling an Adoption Dossier for El Salvador – with Checklist
Posted by KimDec 3
Compiling a dossier for an international adoption takes a lot of time, a lot of attention to detail, and a lot of patience (especially since several of the items involve waiting on government entities).
A new friend of mine has hit just this stage. It seems overwhelming at first. There’s a long list, and the very first item is a homestudy report which comes with a separate but similar checklist all its own. And then every document must be notarized, authenticated by the county in which that notary holds her/his license, and then apostilled by the state in which that county is located. So some people are looking at a whole bunch of notaries, multiple counties, and several states in order to compile their one family dossier.
Here’s my method of keeping the madness to a minimum. As soon as I got the lists for both our Homestudy and our Dossier, I created tables in Word that would allow me to track each document and also mark off each level of progress for each document. The checklists served both a practical and psychological purpose for me. The practical: there are a lot of documents to collect, and they each need to have every seal on them! But secondarily, I felt like I was accomplishing something. Even if I had merely obtained a document, I put a little clip-art check-mark in the box in that column. Somehow, watching the check-marks’ multiply made me feel better, even during the early stages when I knew I had months to go until our whole dossier was complete.
With the two lists side-by-side, I highlighted which items overlapped, so I could collect copies for both lists at one time as much as possible. Having been through an adoption once before, I was ready to ferret out any efficiencies I could. And this dossier compilation still took me about 10 months. Again, patience is key!
So here it is – the Dossier Checklist for our El Salvador Adoption. I’ll post the Homestudy Checklist in a separate post. Hope these are helpful to someone out there!
[Note: Please refer to your own agency's list of requirements when compiling your own dossier. We reside in Maryland and are adopting from El Salvador. While most items should carry through for all Salvadoran adoptions, requirements do vary from country to country and even vary slightly from one agency to another.]
Dossier Docs Checklist – El Salvador
| Document |
Who’s Getting? |
Got It! |
Notarized! |
County Authen. |
State Apostille |
Submitted!
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| Homestudy Report |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Agency License – Homestudy Agency |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| State Law Statement |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Post-Placement Commitment Statement |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Birth Certificate – Fred |
Fred |
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N/A |
N/A |
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July 2009 |
| Birth Certificate – Kim |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
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July 2009 |
| Birth Certificate – Heriberto |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
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July 2009 |
| Birth Certificate – José |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
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July 2009 |
| Marriage Certificate |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
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July 2009 |
| Certificate of No Criminal Record – Fred(use Gold-Sealed state clearance) |
Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Certificate of No Criminal Record – Kim(use Gold-Sealed state clearance) |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Health Statement on Letterhead – Fred |
Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Health Statement on Letterhead – Kim |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Doctor’s License – F’s & K’s doctor |
Kim
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November 2009 |
| Health Statement on Letterhead – Heriberto |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Health Statement on Letterhead – José |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Doctor’s License – H’s & J’s pediatrician |
Kim |
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November 2009 |
| Employment Verification – Fred |
Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Non-Employment Letter – Kim |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Name Affidavit – Fred |
Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Name Affidavit – Kim |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Psychological Report – Fred (MMPI & IQ) |
Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Psychological Report – Kim (MMPI & IQ) |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Psychologist’s License |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Reference Letter #1 |
Kim |
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July 2009 |
| Reference Letter #2 |
Kim
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July 2009 |
| Immigration Approval 797 – notarized color copies of original |
Kim & Fred
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July 2009 |
Photos of Family and Home
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Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
N/A |
July 2009 |
| I-800 Form (signed but not dated) 5 originals of this form | Kim & Fred |
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N/A |
N/A |
N/A |
February 2009 |
| G-28 Form – squeeze in both names and signatures 5 originals of this form | Kim & Fred |
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N/A |
N/A |
N/A |
February 2009 |
| Color Copy of Passport Page – Fred |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
N/A |
February 2009 |
| Color Copy of Passport Page – Kim |
Kim |
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N/A |
N/A |
N/A |
February 2009 |
| Power of Attorney |
Kim & Fred |
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July 2009 |
| Personal Care (Guardianship) Agreement |
K,F, J&E |
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July 2009 |
3 comments
Comment by Aimee on December 3, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Thank you thank you! I like that you put in timelines too!! I am exhausted already!!!
Comment by Kim on December 3, 2009 at 11:00 pm
I’m running the Homestudy one on Saturday – and will now keep the dates included just for you!
You’re gonna make it; I promise! (This is why you were meant to be so relatively young for your second adoption – so you have all the energy required!)
Comment by Tio Chris on December 11, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Looks to me like you and Fred could use an Adoption Management System (AMS). I think I might know where you can get one if you have somewhere between $300k-$800k laying around…
Or, you could apparently just apply for Federal Stimulus Funds, they seem to be giving money away for everything these days!
So on a serious note, I continue to be amazed how anyone gets through this process at all. It requires so much attention to so many details – and so much patience. The system really does ensure that people that go through all of this REALLY want to adopt children – because you can’t go through all of this without already being committed to the child or children before you even have them!
Of course I know it’s different for every adoption and for every country, state, city.. but this level of rigor certainly must discourage alot of adoption as well. I wonder how much of this rigor is really necessary in every instance.