Census 2010 – Our First Post-Adoption Census, and We’re Officially a Transracial Family, Now!
Posted by KimMar 16

Our copy of the U.S. Census 2010 arrived today, and true to claim, it took me less than 10 minutes to fill out. For any of you who haven’t received yours yet and are curious, you can see all the questions on the form on the U.S. Census website.
The most interesting thing (and it’s pretty straightforward, so nothing really enthralling) was that there are two separate Race/People Group questions – #8 and #9. I guess I didn’t pay attention to that last time, just checked “White,” “White” (oh so very pale) and moved on. Hadn’t even met Fred yet, last time.
But this time, answering for our whole family, I actually had to stop and think how I wanted to fill out the latter question. Question #8 is “Is Person X of Hispanic, Latino, or Spanish origin? Easy enough: ”no” for Fred and me, “yes” for the twins, with a write-in of “Guatemalan.”
But then Question #9 asks “What is Person X’s race?” and I had to decide how to list the twins, since Hispanic/Latino/Spanish is not considered a race according to the census. I ended up going with two answers for them – “White” (their Spanish ancestry) and “American Indian or Alaska Native” with a write-in of “Maya.”
I don’t think it will make any difference to our kids, how I answered the question, but since the census does purport to drive future government policy and programs, it occurred to me that registering them to the best of my understanding of their full heritage may benefit other people who fall into both categories but identify only as “White” (a fairly common practice among Americans of Latin American origin from what I understand). There does seem to be an up-tick of Native-American pride in the Central American countries, but “Indigenous” people are still considered “lesser” and are oppressed people groups in many of those cultures, so some decide to distance themselves from those roots. Indeed, the boys’ birth mom listed them as “not indigenous” on their birth certificates even though her heritage is quite evident from her picture.
Funny how something as simple and routine as a census can represent so much. I do want the twins to be proud of the way God made them, and I believe I set the tone by my being pleased that they are just as they are. And tonight, it meant taking an extra few seconds to be thorough on a government form.
Would love to hear how others of you who have adopted registered your kids, too!
7 comments
Comment by Ali on March 17, 2010 at 7:22 am
That’s actually a change in groupings that happened in the past decade for all sorts of reporting, so it probably wasn’t like that last census. Question #8 is technically ethnicity and #9 is race.
Comment by Amy on March 18, 2010 at 7:31 am
I was surprised that names, birthdays, and race was about all they asked you about on the census. For some reason I was expecting something more? I guess it’s important to know the racial make-up of the population?
Comment by Tio Chris on March 18, 2010 at 12:08 pm
I was expecting more too, it seemed alot less than what I imagined.. Then I was thinking that this must have been my first census that I’ve ever filled out… I don’t remember doing this before. During the last census I was still in school, but I don’t remember filling one out separately at school, so my parents must have included me.
I was torn about what to do about my roommate Dan, since he’s in Afghanistan… technically he’s not in the armed forces, so i don’t know if they would have him fill out a census form over there… rather than waiting for him to find out, I just filled in his info. If he gets counted twice, oh well I guess. Perhaps Odenton will get it’s own representative..
Comment by Kim on March 18, 2010 at 10:03 pm
I’m a little skeptical that the numbers will get used for much anytime soon; but if someone’s going to double-represent, I’m happy with Dan!
Comment by haitian american family of three on March 21, 2010 at 1:21 am
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Thank you for your time!
Comment by Mara on April 20, 2010 at 9:21 pm
Recently, I found the 2010 Census form hanging on my door. As I began filling it out, I came across a dilemma. The U.S. government wants to know if my children are adopted or not and it wants to know what our races are. Being adopted myself, I had to put “Other” and “Don’t Know Adopted” for my race and “Other” and “Don’t Know” for my kids’ races.
Can you imagine not knowing your ethnicity, your race? Now imagine walking into a vital records office and asking the clerk for your original birth certificate only to be told “No, you can’t have it, it’s sealed.”
How about being presented with a “family history form” to fill out at every single doctor’s office visit and having to put “N/A Adopted” where life saving information should be?
Imagine being asked what your nationality is and having to respond with “I don’t know”.
It is time that the archaic practice of sealing and altering birth certificates of adopted persons stops.
Adoption is a 5 billion dollar, unregulated industry that profits from the sale and redistribution of children. It turns children into chattel who are re-labeled and sold as “blank slates”.
Genealogy, a modern-day fascination, cannot be enjoyed by adopted persons with sealed identities. Family trees are exclusive to the non-adopted persons in our society.
If adoption is truly to return to what is best for a child, then the rights of children to their biological identities should NEVER be violated. Every single judge that finalizes an adoption and orders a child’s birth certificate to be sealed should be ashamed of him/herself.
I challenge all readers: Ask the adopted persons that you know if their original birth certificates are sealed.
Comment by Kim on April 25, 2010 at 6:53 pm
Mara, I totally agree with you about the record access. Coming from the adoptive parent’s perspective, I want my kids to know as much about their lineage and heritage as they can.
I think, long ago, the sealed records were meant to protect the privacy of the birthmom. Because it was considered shameful to BE the birthmom. I don’t get that same sense in our culture, now. I hope that has changed, anyway.
I’m sorry you’re experiencing what you are. Thank you for commenting and for reminding me how fortunate we are to have at least gotten photocopies of our sons’ original birth certificates before they were altered. I don’t understand why anyone thought it necessary to re-do their BC’s with Fred and me as birth parents. One look at our family and you’ll KNOW that’s not true. And that’s ok. It doesn’t make their story any less valuable.
I hope you get resolution some day!